Sunday, May 18, 2008

The French Way Used To Be the American Way

Recently, I have become fascinated with women's living style in France and the way in which they keep themselves so well even past their "prime." I found out some surprising things: French women do not wear much make-up (verified by the 20 French movies I have watched in the last couple of months). And, as we all know, from Mireille Guiliano's French Women Don't Get Fat, French women are slim, many of them all through their middle-aged years. As described by Guiliano, French women insist upon feeling good in their skin, eat anything but not much of it, exercise. Restraint--less is more--is the ticket. a discipline that also insists on wearing only clothes of good quality and that fit (I have plenty of cheap shopping errors in my closet). Family, food, fashion seem to be the preoccupations of French women, along with gardens and books. Men are also a major preoccupation, since French women reportedly dress to be looked and admired by men, although here again, restraint in showing any skin is the norm. It is also interesting to note that the French do not have credit cards--it is strictly pay as you go in France--not as in the United States. Do ballooning credit card balances in the States go hand in hand with ballooning bodies, as we lose any capacity for delayed gratification?

Here are photos by Irving Penn of his wife and muse, Swedish model, Lisa Fonssagrives, who epitomized the sophistication and elegance of 1950s fashion.

In my researches of how French women think of themselves and of their bodies, it occurred to me that their discipline used to be the custom for women in America, at least in my mother's generation (1928-1998). My mother was chubby in her youth and after she went to college, never again. She "ate like a bird"--small portions. She had a routine that worked for breakfast and lunch, rarely ate between meals, walked two and a half miles every day after her children had flown the coop, and was extremely conscious of her weight, perhaps in excess. She returned from a visit to Paris when she was in her sixties to say that she was surprised that French men looked at her there. I wasn't; she was an elegant dresser and had a slim figure and beautiful smile.

Lisa Fonssagrives on the cover of Vogue in a day dress. Competent, smart, simple, and elegant. Nothing is flopping or flapping.

In the 1950s and 1960s almost all of my mother's many women friends were also slim. I recently read a blog by an American woman who had just had a baby in France and noted that her French women friends all watched her body very closely during and after pregnancy to see if she had gained any weight and were very pleased and approving to see that she had not (I apologize that I do not have the link to this post. Cannot find it). The same used to be the case with American women. I recall my mother praising a friend who had just had a baby, telling her, "Oh, you look so slim!" When the friend told my mother that she actually weighed less than her pre-pregnancy weight, my mother praised her in encouragement. Now this woman was quite slim to begin with, but I never forgot this interchange and the way in which women encouraged each other to be slender, rather than feeling envious. In those days, the idea was to gain only 20 pounds when pregnant. Today, the norm is 30 pounds, and women with their first children often gain more.

Lisa Fonssagrives on the cover of Vogue in evening dress, which emphasizes the waist and the elegant line. No cleavage, which often seems a must on the red carpet today.

The aesthetic of the 1950s is also one of restraint as compared with today, with an emphasis on elegance rather than power or sexiness. In the 1950s, as in the 1930s, and 1890s, clothes drew attention to the relationship of the upper and lower parts of the body to the waist rather than on cleavage. In my mother's world, those who flung cleavage around were considered vulgar. The 1950s style is a colder and more formal look than we have now, especially since "streetwalker clothes" took over fashion in the 1970s. But it is not hard to imagine that a woman who is so immaculately groomed and coutured as Lisa Fonssagrives, for instance, has restrained dietary habits. In comparison with her sophistication, today's couture sometimes seems as if women today are trying to be Li'l Abner's Daisy Mae. Note the accessories: hat, gloves, flower pin, earrings. A lot to have fun with.

The concluding point: The way French women are we used to be.

Monday, May 12, 2008

Home Sewing Boom in England

According to the British newspaper the Guardian, there is a home sewing revival in Britain with an accompanying sharp rise in sales of sewing machines. The Guardian reports that making your own clothes is now considered the height of fashion. Here's hoping that a fashion environment in which a lot of women are making their own clothes will breathe new life into designer fashion. Already this spring, the "retro" dress has made its way down the catwalks--pretty, more feminine dresses in retro types of colorful fabric.

Here in the U.S.A., a similar boom has taken place. I joined the sewing revival this past year. Fear and trepidation all the way: first it took me two years to bring myself to buy a sewing machine, even though it was always at the top of my shopping list. Then, after I bought it, I suddenly decided I had to piece a quilt by hand. It took me five months to get up the gumption to wind the bobbin. Finally, as yuletide was lurking around the corner, I took the plunge to make some gifts from Christmas fabric I had bought on sale in January: a tablecloth, napkins (from a Purlbee tutorial), and place mats. I love the idea of making an object that exists because you shaped otherwise shapeless materials. I like the way in sewing clothes, we take what is basically a two-dimensional object--the flat fabric, and turn it into a three-dimensional object for use. I love to play in my mind with all the colors and prints of the objects. Sometimes in the past months, I have woken up in the middle of the night dreaming about a quilt I have been thinking about or how to make a little crayon holder. I hope all this enjoyment eventually translates into objects whose workmanship is not too shoddy.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day Everyone!

Violets, compliments of my cousin Betsy

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Quilting Stories

In the last year I have come across two short stories about quilting: "A Jury of Her Peers," by Susan Glaspell, 1918 and "The Bedquilt," by Dorothy Canfield Fisher, 1906. "A Jury of Her Peers" is available online here. Find the "Bedquilt" in The Bedquilt and Other Stories, which I am now reading and enjoying. More on Dorothy Canfield Fisher later, I hope.
Do you know of other quilting stories?

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Vintage Homemaking

Please see Pleasant View Schoolhouse for important words from Anna on the vintage homemaker. Pleasant View Schoolhouse is a daily treat for me, and I have learned a lot from reading about her family; how she works as a mother, home maker, and seamstress; and her insightful thoughts.